Meanwhile, back in the city . . . .

After a few email exchanges, some of us managed to get together for dinner Monday night.  Us, meaning Viet Nam mommies and me.  I am blessed to be surrounded by many AP’s from Viet Nam in my area.  It was such a refreshing change from just sitting and agonizing.   I got to catch up on the babies’ progress and listen to the cute stories.  I was given a laundry list of “what to do” and “what not to do” so I know if little Aven makes it home, I’ll have awesome resources. 

I was with AP’s that adopted children from HCMC and from Aven’s province.  It is interesting to hear about the different ways the G&R’s were handled and obviously the ages of the children were dramatically different because of the different provinces.  It was so comforting to have these ladies share things with me that I wouldn’t even think to ask about.  Truly, I have been blessed with the best people in the world.  They are great moms and great friends.  Like a big old mug of hot cocoa for the soul.  We laughed so hard at each other and that was nice for a change.  I got a call from another friend this weekend that I missed.  I could have hung out with one of the coolest little Vietnamese chicks this side of Viet Nam, but I missed the call!!!!!  ARGH!!!  That’s ok, I get to do lunch with her mom and my dear, dear friend (who seriously walks on water in my eyes!) this Friday.  Now, if we could just all get together at the same time, THAT would be glorious!  I do hope someday ALL of our babies can have one Hella Babypalooza Play Date! 

Aven honey . . . . you have so many people praying for you to come home and who have tried to help mummy and daddy behind the scenes . . . . I just want you to know how loved you are and how special your new little friends are because they have the greatest parents ever. . .  Hurry home, Sweet Cheeks!  You have at least 3 boyfriends to coo over!

Lookie what you got for your birthday Aven!!!!!

A Presidential Inauguration and a brand new President!!!! 

Mommy voted for him with you in mind sweety.  Now, we must plot to repeal that pesky little law that states that only natural born citizens can be President so you can have YOUR turn!  Or would you prefer to be Secretary of State so that you can make sure the International Adoption opportunities that should be available to orphans remains INTACT and ETHICAL to ALL parties!!!??  Think about it and we’ll discuss when we meet! 

And guess what else?  It is snowing!  I’ll take a piccie and post it later!  Going to go make some hot cocoa and dream about snuggling up with you someday and sharing that cocoa . . . .

Pals~~A dedication

Aven honey . . . . you are going to be so confused if you ever do make it home.  You may have the only mom that loves Westerns and Kung Fu movies and who puts loyalty before the frivolity of “playing nice” just because it looks good, regardless of how it feels.  It is with that in mind that I dedicate the following video from one of my favorite movies of all time.  I am a big Billy the Kid fan.  He didn’t always do things “law way”, but his heart was always in the right place . . . and he never forgot who his friends were that stood by him.  So . . . . this video is dedicated to my Pals.  The ones who have been there for 5 years and watched my heart bleed as I lost 3 children.  The ones that have been there for the last 1.5 years watching my struggle to get to you.  The ones that have never let me down.  The ones that always gave me the benefit of the doubt.  The ones that held me up when I thought I just couldn’t take it anymore.  The ones who stepped up to the plate because I needed them; not because they needed me.  You all know who you are.  A real Pal always does.  If you think I am talking about you, then I probably am.   I hope that someday Aven gets to meet all her Aunties and Uncles that are so beloved by her mommy and daddy.   Merci Beaucoup . . . please to enjoy . . . .

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Protected: Aven is 10 months old today . . .

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