Meanwhile, back in the city . . . .

After a few email exchanges, some of us managed to get together for dinner Monday night.  Us, meaning Viet Nam mommies and me.  I am blessed to be surrounded by many AP’s from Viet Nam in my area.  It was such a refreshing change from just sitting and agonizing.   I got to catch up on the babies’ progress and listen to the cute stories.  I was given a laundry list of “what to do” and “what not to do” so I know if little Aven makes it home, I’ll have awesome resources. 

I was with AP’s that adopted children from HCMC and from Aven’s province.  It is interesting to hear about the different ways the G&R’s were handled and obviously the ages of the children were dramatically different because of the different provinces.  It was so comforting to have these ladies share things with me that I wouldn’t even think to ask about.  Truly, I have been blessed with the best people in the world.  They are great moms and great friends.  Like a big old mug of hot cocoa for the soul.  We laughed so hard at each other and that was nice for a change.  I got a call from another friend this weekend that I missed.  I could have hung out with one of the coolest little Vietnamese chicks this side of Viet Nam, but I missed the call!!!!!  ARGH!!!  That’s ok, I get to do lunch with her mom and my dear, dear friend (who seriously walks on water in my eyes!) this Friday.  Now, if we could just all get together at the same time, THAT would be glorious!  I do hope someday ALL of our babies can have one Hella Babypalooza Play Date! 

Aven honey . . . . you have so many people praying for you to come home and who have tried to help mummy and daddy behind the scenes . . . . I just want you to know how loved you are and how special your new little friends are because they have the greatest parents ever. . .  Hurry home, Sweet Cheeks!  You have at least 3 boyfriends to coo over!

And then there was one . . .

Agatha Christie . . . where are you?

I left town this weekend to check on my father and stepmother.  She just had a triple bypass to prepare for her kidney transplant.  My dad is into his chemotherapy.  I was startled to learn they were getting Meals on Wheels, but grateful at the same time.  It sucks that we live so far apart.  I imagine that we will have to make regularly scheduled visits between my sister and I to make sure they are ok.  I didn’t sleep most of the weekend, but I really haven’t slept well for the last year.   . . . no biggie.  My dad only wants to know one thing . . .  When is that baby coming home?  Oh . . . . if I only knew when . . . .

I have been trying to to my part to work toward advancing the push for a new agreement, albeit in a far less aggressive way than before as per my lawyer’s instruction.  I offered to have our names put on a petition, but the offer was declined by a very intuitive LADY out west. . . . bless her . . . she doesn’t want us to do anything to hurt our attempt to get our daughter home.  Thank you for the way you handled that B.A.!  When there is an end to my travails, perhaps I can renew more aggressive approaches.  I am encouraged by the work that some of my friends have done with the new administration about to be seated.  YEAH SHARON’S FRIENDS!!!! 

I did find out that we are the only family left in what used to be my agency.  Everyone else has their child or either has left to go get their child.   That is a bit scary . . . .  breathe in, breathe out.  And then there was one . . . . and EXHALE.

Pals~~A dedication

Aven honey . . . . you are going to be so confused if you ever do make it home.  You may have the only mom that loves Westerns and Kung Fu movies and who puts loyalty before the frivolity of “playing nice” just because it looks good, regardless of how it feels.  It is with that in mind that I dedicate the following video from one of my favorite movies of all time.  I am a big Billy the Kid fan.  He didn’t always do things “law way”, but his heart was always in the right place . . . and he never forgot who his friends were that stood by him.  So . . . . this video is dedicated to my Pals.  The ones who have been there for 5 years and watched my heart bleed as I lost 3 children.  The ones that have been there for the last 1.5 years watching my struggle to get to you.  The ones that have never let me down.  The ones that always gave me the benefit of the doubt.  The ones that held me up when I thought I just couldn’t take it anymore.  The ones who stepped up to the plate because I needed them; not because they needed me.  You all know who you are.  A real Pal always does.  If you think I am talking about you, then I probably am.   I hope that someday Aven gets to meet all her Aunties and Uncles that are so beloved by her mommy and daddy.   Merci Beaucoup . . . please to enjoy . . . .

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